The problem both men and women have are similar. And a simplified way to explain the difference between them are that women must figured out the solution for life’s problems that men do, but in a significantly shorter amount of time, before they are 30 years old, ideally in their early twenties.
Most young women’s parents are unequiped to help their daughter’s romantic lives, their fathers not knowledgeable or experienced enough to know how to vet men their daughters are interested in before they start dating them. This leaves a problem by the time a father is even able to vet his daughter’s boyfriend, she has likely already slept with the man and her value as a wife to other men decreased.
For young women who have father’s that are very experienced in the way of women and are willing to help their daughters find their husband, they are lucky as they are in the minority. As with many things in nature, many aspects of human sexual dynamics follow the 80/20 rule, that is to say about 20% of young women’s fathers will even know how to vet a man before his daughter starts dating him, but even less will be in their daughters life or be knowledgeable in how to make use of his experience. That is to say, for every young women, very few have parents that will help him find their husband.
For father’s that are both knowledgeable of women’s romantic behavior and in the way men and women get to know each other romantically, he can make use of this experience by devising his tests to coincide with the way that women test men, ideally how he notices how his daughter tests new men she talks to. If he can devise such a test that also tells him whether he approves of the man or not, then when a man passes/fails his tests, his daughter will either gain/lose attraction in synchronization. This is an ideal scenario if many of the father’s tests coincide with ways his daughters get to know new men and will create a situation where if the father ends up liking the man, his daughter will too, but if he ends up not approving, his daughter won’t like the man anyways. This also builds trust between him and his daughter and she will be more likely to be honest with her father. Too often father’s that are ignorant of women, have daughters that are not honest with their fathers about their romantic interests for the exact opposite reason.
There is no benefit if you are a father that is inexperienced with women, and so the more knowledgeable you are the better you can help your daughter with her romantic life. For your daughters sake, try to educate yourself the best you can in women’s romantic behavior, but without compromising your daughter’s parent’s marriage. It needs to be understood by these fathers that your wife will NEVER tell you if your daughter is hitting on a man she is interested in if you can both see and hear your daughter and a man she may be interested in talking to each other. This is something many father’s ignorantly believe will happen, the reason this doesn’t happen is because this is your wife’s test of your fitness as a father, your ability to help your daughter survive to have healthy and successful children. If your able to accurately identify what is happening, you pass your wife’s test, if not, you fail and she will not tell you nor tell you what your daughter is doing.
Women must figure out things in their life such as, their husband, their career, and how these things fit together before they are not attractive enough to make these things happen. And for attractive women, while the time they have is technically increased, because they are far less as 30 than they are at 20, they should also stick to the same timeline unless they plan on having their children’s father being unappealing to them because they will have had far better before in the prime of their youth.
The solution for the life script is significantly cut down if a women’s parents are able to help them in their romantic life. This required that the father be at least experienced enough with women to know his daughter’s interests and how she gets to know men. This means for most young women, they are on there own when it comes to figuring out their future.